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I was reading about the girl w/ the boyfriend who has pictures and wall posts on fb with his ex…. I can relate to it.. you have to realize that she was his past and you are his present and future, you cant keep looking at his past, that’s why its back there, there’s a reason why you are with him now and she isn’t… have trust in him and your relationship will go far. Just enjoy it. (:
Things to look for:
- Flirty gestures
- A constant want to talk seeming as though they go out of their way for it.
- Smiling anytime you’re talking.
- Asks to hang out quite alot.
- Compliments you maybe even on little things you wouldnt think to notice.
Unfortunately the best advice i can give you is to stop worrying about this. Don’t stress that you’re the SINGLE friend. Don’t stress that you havent had all of those moments. and trust me when i say you’re not the only one who hasn’t. Find someone you’re truly gonna be happy with and don’t settle for anything less.
Alright honestly? I can’t answer that question only you can. Can you see yourself with this guy? Happy? In a future with a family or a career living together? IF you can answer yest to all of those questions? Then maybe it’s time to look over his downfalls third times the charm right? However if some of those questions have you pondering whether or not to wait around then maybe it’s time for you to move on. Find someone who all of those questions are “yes” for.
I honestly wish that there was some magic solution but maybe the solution itself isnt to worry about thinking like that. Look at the guy that right now isnt with his ex who’s he chosen to be with? You. Your his one and only and that’s what you need to stress to yourself. He chose you, not her not anyone else and he may have said those things before but that’s not what matters. What matters is that he’s thinking them about YOU. Don’t be afraid to let yourself be happy.
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I’m in the same position as you are. I honestly can’t stand my boyfriends friends either however I don’t think theirs a magic fix. Both sides are needed to make him happy. You as well as those friends and he should feel comfortable with that. Tell him that you’re not mad even if he wants to go out with his friends. Do it calmly and just make him feel really comfortable.
If that doesn’t stop the lying. then it’s time to confront him and let him know that you know.
It’s not always him who needs to take the next step. If you wanna move past where you are? Then you can jump to that next level too. Ask him out. I know that can be weird and that the guys supposed to do it but you can do it too. It’s not just one side don’t be afraid to make a move for him.
Obviously you don’t really matter and if all he cares about is how she feels about him it’s time to find someone new. Someone who’s solely focused on you.